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Post by Deleted on Jul 22, 2013 4:01:29 GMT -5
How big an age difference is too big in a relationship?
I am really into this lady who is 10 years younger than me....too much?
Im 30 and she is 20
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KyKarateka
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Post by KyKarateka on Jul 22, 2013 20:43:04 GMT -5
I personally wouldn't date anyone anymore than 3 years younger than myself. This is just me though and I'm still younger it makes more of a difference I suppose, when you're older the difference kind of fades away.
If you like her and she likes you, why should society's antiquated sense of normality stop you?
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Post by the tank on Jul 23, 2013 3:21:54 GMT -5
I say who cares, give it a shot.
I used to avoid women who were under 25, because they didn't know what they want in life, then I realized the ones older than 25 don't know either, lol.
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Post by odee on Jul 24, 2013 16:44:30 GMT -5
Depends on how much money you have. If you're in a great financial position people tend to overlook age differences a bit more. Besides, fourty years ago people in America, Canada, England and Australia were still marrying their daughters off to guys twenty years older.
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Post by Glutton4Punishment on Aug 30, 2013 0:59:05 GMT -5
You guys can all say what you will, but we all look at the jail bait and like what we see. Let's be honest with ourselves: The idea of a wife that's 30 when you're 40 or 40 when you're 50 is awesome. If I could keep my wife her current age for the next 10 years, I would.
Go ahead and call me vain, you guys know you'd do the same.
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odee
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Post by odee on Aug 30, 2013 1:04:25 GMT -5
Vain would be giving too much thought to what others think and letting that girl slip out of your pants-wait...I mean er..hands...er...ah...right. Hands.
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Keyboard Warrior
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Post by Keyboard Warrior on Aug 30, 2013 2:04:45 GMT -5
30 and her being 20 isn't bad. It's when you're 40 and dating 18 year olds, that it may be concerned "wrong." I've never really dated chicks that were significantly younger than me. Dated a girl once who was 5 years older than me. But like Glutton said, I'm sure if most of us were older, we'd all want to date the 20 year old, over someone our age.
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Post by Chino on Aug 31, 2013 7:47:36 GMT -5
I think it depends on her life style, if you guys are going clubbing together and your the 30 year old with all her friends that are still 20 then it's probably too old.
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Post by Johnnie on Aug 31, 2013 12:15:41 GMT -5
You both are well over 18, I see nothing wrong with it. You're 30 she's 20, if she wants to be with you, nothing wrong with it.
Then again I'm only 17, so just my 2 cents.
It'd be a whole different story if she was 15 and you were 25 though.
Or 10 and 20.
Hell even newborn and 10 years old is bad!
but 20 and 30 is just fine.
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Post by Deleted on Nov 1, 2013 6:18:28 GMT -5
Listen to all you bloody legends,lol, if you click just go for it, lifes to short, only down side is maturity level maybe maybe not, but who knows until you try, could be a good thing.
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